Life Changing Mindset

How to be that cool guy that really stands out, having the right mindset?

Be yourself. I know this, and I'm not trying to pretend to be someone who I'm not. But mindset has a great impact on your thoughts, and thoughts turn into things. So help me out, what mindset should I have? I want to take the lead in groups and with a girl I asked to the movie tomorrow night. Is overbearing confidence the key to being a man?

Public Comments

1. Quiet confidence works better.

2. Look at your last question? You are not trying to be yourself. You are trying to be someone else, and you are here looking for pointers. STOP. BE YOURSELF.

3. look, i know you want to stand out... but dont let that be a goal of yours. just be happy with your friends and play the cards right in life. you dont need to be cool and stand out to be successful. find someone you love and get a good job... trust that trying to be that person is a waste of time. dude, get a grip on whats important in life. best wishes! -Sarabear

4. Yes, be yourself, but of course, only follow your good points and do your best to remove your bad points that you know of or others have told you of.
You cannot expect to do this in just 24 hours. This takes daily practice and persistence, and once you have made up your mind about it, make sure you stick to it. Think positive, and believe in yourself. Imagine how you want to be in your mind consistently, because research has shown that when we imagine how we want to be, our brain cells will program our subconscious to become like exactly how we imagine ourselves to be. Also, think before you act, this can save you a lot of trouble and help avoid saying things that you may regret later.
You can also help read motivational books to help develop your character and proper thinking too. There are some great books by Anthony Robbins and Andrew Matthews in the market which I have read, and found a great help.
Lastly, pray, because God can work things that we couldn't and sometimes, He can make our life change for the better. But, remember, when we change, expect a fight because change is always challenged.It is always this way, as if we are tested to see if we are really serious about changing. Just keep up with what you are doing to change yourself and you'll see the results in time. =)

5. I think that kindness will draw more flies than meanness. Confidence is a great thing until you talk about it. Confidence Is opening the door and leading her into a room barely touching the small of her back. Ask if she wants to sit up front or in the back of the show. When you get drinks ask her what she would like. Remember what she says and listen to her when she speaks! Don't talk a lot listen let her talk she will tell you things about herself. In groups same thing listen to everyone then think how to pull everyone together in a common direction. Never show emotion without great consideration to how you will affect others. Then when you are not together People will say everyone was yelling except _____ you, see. Just be a perfect gentelman And you will be fine. Make her laugh girls want to have fun. Be thoughtful all the even if she is wrong, and remember you dont have to win everytime agree to disagre.