Life Changing Mindset

Using the Secret-Law of Attraction?

I have been reading alot on the law of attraction and found the secret book. I also watched the movie. I really want to improve my current relationship. I have been with someone for 3 years who i love very dearly and i really want to marry him eventually.. his just all over the place at the moment, even if i try and communicate clearly about the future to him, he acts confused. Anyways what my question is.. how do i use the secret to improve my relationship? i know that the universe gives whoever is meant to be in my life.. is there anyone out there with real expexperiences this?

thanks alot

Public Comments

1. The secret is garbage. If you want something you have to work toward it- focusing on goals is good but don't expect anything to fall into your lap and don't buy into anyone's noise if they tell you that you can magically change by thinking.

2. One thing about the law of attraction.... you can only work in "your space".

Don't worry about him. Don't worry about what he's doing. Let him do his thing. You do yours.
You don't want to MAKE him satisfy your needs. What kind of relationship is that?

So relax and refocus back on yourself. Focus on what you want and why you want it. If you want to share your life with him, go ahead. You can tell him why you want to share / do things with him (and especially him). How fun and love filled it would be. This should be a light, happy conversation.

Remember that he is not responsible for making you happy (and he couldn't even if he wanted to). That's your job.

So look at him with love and look at all of his best qualities. The more you focus on those, the more of them you will attract.

So free him of any obligation to satisfy your needs and let him free you of any obligations to him. Then if you do anything together, it's for the fun of it only (and that's how you have a joyful, loving, relationship). So work (well, play really) on yourself and have fun with this. Follow your internal guidance and let him follow his.

Just on a side note: When you communicating clearly about the future to him, are you talking about your future or his? Because if you try to step into his future (his space), he will act confused. He has a different vision of the future / reality than you. Always!

I hope this helps.

3. If you are interested in the law of attraction, I would definitely check out this site: http://www.mindmaster.tv/success.html
This program helps you put new messages in your mind, replacing any negative images or thoughts. These new sublimal thoughts and positive affirmations can help you change your life.

People have reduced their stress and anxiety, stopped smoking, lost weight, and accomplished many other things. I have read stories of people who have tried this and it's pretty amazing. It's free to try too :) I hope you find what you're looking for!

4. Hey! I have read The Secret and watched the DVD quite a few times. At first, I was excited to try it out for myself but I didn't do so well initially. However, I learned to monitor my thoughts and noticed that they were in opposition to my wants. Eventually, I began to develop a firm positive thought process and that's when I noticed the change.

Even in a relationship, you have to learn how to keep a positive mindset. Many people in relationships automatically see it as something that is temporary. In my opinion, I would focus more on visualizing the overall result that you desire to obtain. Include him into your desire. Look at wedding dresses together. Or, you can do something less direct such as looking at homes together. That way both of your thoughts are focused on a future together.

For more tips on the law of attraction and positive thinking you can visit a few of my favorite blogs @ http://www.myprosperityflow.com and http://www.positivelyprosperous.org

P.S.

The law of attraction really does work and true enough, you have to be positive and take action as well. I know for a fact because it has worked for my. Just focus on being positive and making wise decisions and you will be fine.