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love affirmations Knowledge Base
Any great books on postive affirmations and self love of one sself? I am trying to love myself more and being more grateful and happy. I was told to use affirmations to be more positive.(and they say you have to love yourself first in order to get love or attract it) So I feel loving me and doing for me is first and foremost right now.So I am looking for books on self love and being more postive.(and affirmations)
What is your favorite statement of (love) affirmation from your partner? What statements or words make you feel loved by your partner? Words or statements of affirmation.
How do you manifest health, wealth and love? I am having some success now in manifesting love using affirmations of attraction. I believe I am abundant and would like others to join me in manifesting global abundance. What is the next perfect thing for us to do? When I wake up I ask "What do I want?" and state "I am in the flow" and I need to work on stating what I want to unfold that date. I have been advised to toss out my love net and imagine working harmoniously with people even difficult people. Join me in transforming the world.
What book should I have my girlfriend read to help her speak my love language? I'm a big believer in Gary Chapman's "The Five Love Languages". It's helped me in my life in dealing with many people. My love language is words of affirmation and my girlfriend is terrible at it. She's offered to read a book on it but I'm not sure which book would be best. Any ideas on which would help her learn how to speak words of affirmation?
Can you use personal names during your affirmations? When doing affirmations, I of course use the words I am as they have said. If I know whom I want to be with and in love with can we use his name at all. I have been told not to use someones name.
What in your opinion is the most difficult language to love? For those not familiar with them, they are 1. Acts of Service 2. Physical Touch 3. Receiving Gifts 4. Words of Affirmation 5. Quality Time How do you deal with your spouse if you have different love languages? I'm words of affirmation and physical touch while my spouse is acts of service (which do not match people, let me tell you. If that's you get out of the relationship unless one of you are willing to work for it).
Hpw do I say I love you in different languages? include pronounciation... I found this on youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SPXRe5CxD3g am working on some affirmations for loving self and to say these in a different language I love and approve and accept myself just as I am. Thanks Kristina
What is your love language? (The key to a successful marriage)? What makes you feel loved? 1. Words of Affirmation 2. Quality Time 3. Receiving Gifts 4. Acts of Service 5. Physical Touch I think mine is a combination of words of affirmation and receiving gifts. :)
Do you believe in affirmation "You must love your enemies? If you do, then why?
When you write a poem or song does the words come true, like affirmations or how the secret works? When I was 15 I used to write alot of depressing love poems and about my feelings feeling tormented etc, I realised that these poems were coming true ova and ova again, I burnt all the poems, how can I change this now to receive what I want as happiness in my life? I've thought about writing romantic love poems but should I write them as present or coming events?
People who love to talk about themselves? How do you feel about people who love to talk about themselves? People who thrive on receiving positive affirmations from other people? I know it's normal for people to want to be liked.. but I think there needs to be balance. I am naturally fascinated by people; I love listening to people etc. I guess it just seems so unnatural to want to talk about yourself 24/7 and never inquire about another human being :shrug: thanks matkaantytto :) that little girl is brilliant. thanks for the reference!
I nee 2 affirmation that is related to love, beauty? HURRY, i need to make up a song called Affirmation. I just need to 2 more lines!
How do you learn to love yourself? I find myself worrying way too much about what others think of me and I'm my own worst enemy and critic when it comes to my appearance and myself in general. How can one learn to love him or herself? What affirmations and things out there can help guide him or her along the way?
People who love talking about themselves? How do you feel about people who love to talk about themselves? People who thrive on receiving positive affirmations from other people? I know it's normal for people to want to be liked.. but I think there needs to be balance. I am naturally fascinated by people; I love listening to people etc. I guess it just seems so unnatural to want to talk about yourself 24/7 and never inquire about another human being :shrug:
is LOVE an EMOTION, an EXPRESSION, an IMPRESSION, an AFFIRMATION, a HALLUCINATION, or a FRABRICATION? is love as a feeling COMPLETE? or love is love till you give it away(expression)? or how you perceive it(impression)? or when it's accepted or given back(affirmation), a figment of imagination(hallucination) or the greatest human invention next to God(fabrication)..... what is love using one word to describe it(as one of the choices above) ?
~What is the role of the "SELF" in LOVE~? Is LOVE primarily a form of self-gratification and affirmation(?) or does it involve selflessness and self-sacrifice? (Or both?)
Is our self esteem and self image based on others perception of us? Or does it come from within? why are some people always looking for validation, affirmation, love, interest from others?
do you think that sex is seen as a pass time rather thn an act of love? maybe im idealistic, but i think sex is special, and ive never ever slept with a random person. i dont understnd how people can. i still see sex as an affirmation of love, am i just being idealistic?. it seems today that people my age (im 21) see sex as "something to do" and without any form of emotional attachment.... and, i wasnt brought up in a puritanical family, my views are not a reflection of my families, they are, in many ways opisite
Of the following, which is your preferred method for expressing love to a partner? Physical touch. Talking, words of affirmation. Gifts and meaningful gestures. Acts of service/devotion.
Is there anyone out there that can say that "positive affirmations work.? Well you read about it a lot but i want some feedback about people who honestly tried it as they shoul have and really saw mirracles hapened in theire lives. I really would love to here the real deal real miracioulus story. It woul really help me if there is any.
the five love languages of a teenager quiz? ive taken this before and in the end it tells u what ur love language is-- quailty time, acts of service, physcial touch, gifts, words of affirmation... i cant find the quiz to print out. can i have a link to the exact quiz? thanx!
what are the dimensions of social support? comfort, love, respect, affirmation of self esteem given to us by family, friends, coworkers...even strangers social provisions in relationships...care, money, time spent with significant other etc. Do you have any other ways to define it? I want to make it as broad as possible.
Please will you offer some affirmations for self-validation? Hi there. I have a friend who has some mental health problems, stemming from her beliefs and observations being invalidated as a child and teenager (among other things). I would appreciate some tips on what kind of affirmations would be good to help her be true to her own inner feelings, and to feel secure enough to accept other people's points of views, without feeling threatened. ATM, she tends to rely on her husband for self-validation, but they are both young and the poor guy has no idea that this is what she needs... or how to do it. She attacks him verbally in an effort to see if he will "love her just the way she is"... (I guess it's like in that song, "...are you strong enough to be my man?") What can she tell herself to find self-validation, and be more objective and distanced from other people's opinions of her? Any clues? Thank you!
Do you have some favorite affirmations that help you through a tough time? they can be related to anything... health wealth love self expression anything....
I've been reading alot about overcoming Social Phobia with those positive affirmations and ..? cognitive therapy stuff... (if you read anywhere about this you know what i mean!) but my question is this! Does it ever really get CURED? Or do you have to always treat yourself with these affirmations like "I really am lovable. I love myself..." forever and ever?? PLEASE i REALLY need to know! thanks so much to those that leave advice/opinion. Bless you!
How is the best way to express love to you? By: Words of Affirmation Quality Time Acts of Service Receiving Gifts Physical Touch Which two of the listed five ways do you think would get the most mileage for your affection? Do you have your own way? If so, what is it?
Does society put pressure on women into wanting show of affection? Wife accuses me of not being affectionate because I'm not fond of hugging, kissing, or caressing her. I don't involve myself in valentine's day because I think it's just a scam for stores to make money. I think society brainwashes women into thinking that they need that kind of affirmation of love.
Does anyone feel that a lot of adult male perverts post questions on here posing as teen boys? It seems like a lot of these postings aren't real. I think they're posted by men who love the sexual affirmation from other men that they didn't get when they were young. What do you think?
What's your "love language"? What makes you feel most loved... - Words of affirmation - Quality time - Receiving gifts - Acts of service - Physical touch My love language is touch followed closely by words. My wife's love language is Acts of service followed closely by Quality time. We had to learn to speak each other's language so the other would feel loved. How about you?
Affirmations, i need some ideas please? I want to attract lots of new and old friends to my life, id love a huge circle of friends that i always have a friend to go out with and have someone to hang out with when ever i want, im 27 and its been a dream of mine the last 7 years, i heard Affirmations is a good way of attracting good things, any ideas would be great
How Can I Love Myself? How can I raise my self-esteam.. When I'm around other people I feel insecure and I feel they are more cool than me I feel like shit. How can I change that? Are there any techniques, like affirmations for example. I have been using affirmations for about 1 month and i'm starting to see some kind of results, but anyways..
Who has truly been able to manifest easily..money..love..etc ? LOA? I have read lots of books...lots ! and I know about affirmations, and taking your mind off , and accepting, gratitude, positive thinking, getting rid of fear etc..I read it all.. But I would love to hear some accounts which would make me believe in it a ..little bit more ? What are your experiences please ? How long did it take ? was it easy ? etc..
Can I get my love back by positive affirmation?Hez nt wid me n all I cn do is prayer.I want him back plz help? I have lost everythin I could call personal...my family, friends,love,job,car...Three months ago I met a guy but hez already seeing someone else.This time I am adament I want him or else I don't wanna live nymre.
My husband's love language is words of affirmation. What are some anniversary ideas of gifts to make for him? His love language is Words of affirmation. AKA he likes to hear words of appreciation for the things he does. We never make gifts for each other and he is not a romantic person so I am not sure if he would even appreciate such a gift. Here is what I was thinking about doing: First off, this is an idea I came up with. I would first buy these wedding favor things from Michaels, see linky. http://www.michaels.com/art/online/projectsheet?pid=j00469&categoryid=63 2 decorate the lid with decorative paper and number each one with a sticker. 1-however many. 3. Write on little pieces of paper:" I love you because......" and then fill in the blanks. for example: I love you because you take out the trash! 4. Put the boxes in a very large clear jar. 5. Write on the top or side, "I love you, let me count the ways.." 6. Put a poem or something in the jar too 7. I would continue to add to the jar throughout our lives This is going to take a lot of Money and Time. I like the idea, I just don't know where he would put it, if he would even like it, and I don't think it'd be easy to find the newest additions to the jar. Any suggestions on how to make this idea better, or ideas on other gifts to make? I want to make a gift that tells him exactly what I appreciate that he does. Any suggestions would be appreciated! 3 days ago - 1 day left to answer. Additional Details I do NOT want to buy something. If I did, I would take the easy way and just google it. If you are going to answer, answer without suggesting I buy some crap 3 days ago
What love language do you speak /and your partner? CLICK THE LINK AND TAKE A TEST AND FIND WHAT LOVE LANGUAGE YOU SPEAK AND YOUR PARTNER. http://www.afo.net/hftw-lovetest.asp My love language is mostly words of afirmation, also quality time. According to Dr. Chapman, the five love languages are Quality Time, Words of Affirmation, Gifts, Acts of Service and Physical Touch. Quality Time refers to spending time together as a couple. People who have this as their love language feel loved when they are taken out on special dates, when their spouse clears the calendar for them, or when the television is turned off in order to have a conversation. Others prefer Words of Affirmation as a way to be shown love. Telling your spouse how you appreciate them, encouraging them, and general words of praise and acceptance all show your love. If Gifts is your spouse's love language, then you need to understand that for them, gifts are not simply material objects -- they are expressions of your love. If your spouse's love language is Acts of Service, they will appreciate your help more than anything. Give them a night off from cooking or other household chores. Repair that leaky faucet. Help them with the yard work. Prepare them a nice lunch to take to work. Some people prefer Physical Touch as their love language. A simple touch on the arm, hug or backrub will convey your love to them. Yes shep I agree, we want all. I also agree that some people feel more love from one act over another. When someone gives of themselves it has much more meaning to me. For example some might feel more love if there spouse spent lots of money on flowers. I however would feel most loved if he would have just happen to have seen some flowers by the road and thought of me and picked them for me. There for its not about the gift giving for me, its about giving of self. http://www.fivelovelanguages.com/start.html
How to communicate appreciation through acts of service and words of affirmation? My husbands love languages are words of affirmation and acts of service...The fist year and a half of our marriage has been a big fight, and we want to save it. I need help thinking of ideas of how to fill his love tank and overcome the huge deficit I have caused. Any help or suggestions would be greatly appreciated!
Is there a way of attracting more fun, friendships, happiness and love into my life? I have tried positive statements and affirmations, they do not seem to work. Can I light a candle and cast a spell to bring me more love and friendship in my life
What can I do to try to get my wife to fall back in love with me? Me… this is a tough one to write because of two conflicting parts of me. I am over critical of myself, and I am also to prideful to admit when something really is wrong and I need help dealing with something. Two completely different mindsets colliding inside of my head, making things so hard to comprehend and explain to myself. I am a very compassionate person. I love to let someone I care about know exactly how much I love them numerous times per day. I am a person who needs to be told that they are cared about. I need that affirmation of love in my life in return from those that I love. I thrive on recognition… letting me know that I am appreciated in the things I do and the sacrifices I make on a daily basis. I am a romantic… I like the sweet nothings that can be given throughout the day… little notes in my work bag saying I love you, terms of endearment that are said any random time, in any random place. Quality time spent alone just talking about nothing, or holding one another under a blanket watching TV or a movie. That is who I am. That is who I have always been. I am by no means perfect. I have my share of faults as well. I get jealous very easily. I always assume the worst possible scenario with a situation. I over react to what should be a dead issue. I am too persistent in getting answers. I thought my wife was cheating on me because she was spending more time with another man at his house than she was with me, when all she was doing was playing video games and laundry. All that arises because she is so emotionally separated from me. All my jealousy and accusations come from that one thing that I hate about her. I want to have a wife to talk to. I want to have a wife that will talk to me about problems. Someone who feels so emotionally attached to me that she is comfortable talking to me about everything, whether she is in the mood or not. I do not believe that there is a proper mood for talking about a marriage. I am overprotective. I have found something that I hold more dear to me than life itself, and I do not want to lose it to anything or anyone. When she goes out to this guys house to spend time with him and hang out, and I am neither invited or thought of, I begin to do anything I can to protect what I have fought so hard for so long to retain… a relationship with the one person I love. My first step seems to always be the wrong one. I accuse her of fucking around on me with him. This obviously pisses her off and drives her further away from me emotionally. That is just the first thing that I think of. I just do not understand why I could not even ever be invited over with her to his house. See… here I go again and I am just typing things out here. I have asked her directly, and I pray that she was truthful, because I gave her my trust and believed her when she told me that she has never done anything with this man. I just have to figure out how to get the remaining thought out of my head forever so I do not accuse her again. I remember all too well the pain I felt when I was cheated on one time before. The pain was unbearable, and I contemplated many things that I am glad I never acted upon back then. I was naïve and stupid back then. I could not bear the pain to find out that Trina has cheated on me. I know also that I can not accuse her again, because if I keep thinking that she is doing something, then why not go ahead and do what I am accusing her of. I am creating my own demise here. I am digging my own grave… I have to figure out how to put the dirt back into that hole and seal it off for good. I need her assistance in doing this though. I need that reassurance from her that she truly feels that I am the one man for her, and that she would never do that to me. I need that affirmation and those terms of endearment to help me get over my childish behavior. Problem is that if I ask for it, she will assume that I am again accusing her, when I am not. I have to figure out the exact and perfect way to talk to her. When I have tried to just come straight out and talk, she gets very defensive and begins to assume that I am accusing her again, when I truly am not. I don’t know what to say, or how to say it. I don’t know what to do to try to get her to fall back in love with me. I am willing to do anything at this point. If she asked me to take my own life for her, I would gladly do it… I am just so lost and confused right now without her with me anymore.
How do I deal with an insecure boyfriend? My boyfriend of 6 months is constantly asking for affirmation that I love him, that I'm not mad, that I still want to be with him, etc. He has no reason to think anything to the contrary, and he knows that. He calls constantly, and often cries with little provocation. What can I do to assuage his fears? Should I keep investing my time and energy into this relationship?
Has anyone read the book "The Five Love Languages"? If you have read it, what was your love language(s)? For me, it is "Acts of Service" and "Words of Affirmation".
do you think therapy and counselling,in at least some cases has become a very impersonal and cold experience? yes one attends and sheds tears and speaks about their problems and sorrows,the therapist sits and listens but they must by all means maintain the professional visage and this results in a very unfulfilling experience.if someone has endured emotional or verbal abuse for example and the counseller gives this person with shattered self esteem a list of affirmations its quite a harrowing dissapointment!love and care are what really enables a person to grow and develop.love and encouragement are the most important factors!!do you think alot of therapists go into the mental health profession not for the pure intention of healing another human being but rather for the credentials?i cant help but wonder how damaging this is for the world of psychiatry and angers me that there may very well be some decidedly egotistical persons working in the profession!
Why do women want affection? Is it because society tells them to? Wife accuses me of not being affectionate because I'm not fond of hugging, kissing, or caressing her. I think society brainwashes women into thinking that they need this kind of affirmation of love. I already tell her, that should be enough.
What ones of these beliefs hit home for you and why? (Discuss!)- Affirmations by Savage Garden? I believe the sun should never set upon an argument I believe we place our happiness in other people's hands I believe that junk food tastes so good because it's bad for you I believe your parents did the best job they knew how to do I believe that beauty magazines promote low self esteem I believe I'm loved when I'm completely by myself alone I believe in Karma what you give is what you get returned I believe you can't appreciate real love until you've been burned I believe the grass is no more greener on the other side I believe you don't know what you've got until you say goodbye I believe you can't control or choose your sexuality I believe that trust is more important than monogamy I believe your most attractive features are your heart and soul I believe that family is worth more than money or gold I believe the struggle for financial freedom is unfair I believe the only ones who disagree are millionaires - continued below. yes these are song lyrics! I believe in Karma what you give is what you get returned I believe you can't appreciate real love until you've been burned I believe the grass is no more greener on the other side I believe you don't know what you've got until you say goodbye I believe forgiveness is the key to your unhappiness I believe that wedded bliss negates the need to be undressed I believe that God does not endorse TV evangelists I believe in love surviving death into eternity I believe in Karma what you give is what you get returned I believe you can't appreciate real love until you've been burned I believe the grass is no more greener on the other side I believe you don't know what you've got until you say goodbye
How should one empower or use rose quarts to attract your soulmate? Ok so am I supposed to empower it with love energy desire and affirmation, am I supposed to take keep it in my pocket or what am I suppossed to do with it. Since I haven't met her yet. It is said that that stone is often used to attract your soulmate use English to try and explain it, cause I am not understanding what I am reading on websites/where I got the stone from.
Speaking Affirmations? I am starting my life over. I mean in every aspect (career, love life, health, friendships, and interests). I would like to affirm a new life. Can you all give me your suggestions on any affirmations you can come up with on "Starting Over"!
How can you be loving and cruel at the same time? How can you be loving and abusive at the same time? Just curious? May somebody explain this to me. How can somebody say they truly love you, treat you good with physically affection, with sweet affirmations, chat and talk to daily, help you out with your children but be so abusive to you at the same time?
